Ahhh 2020 is finally here and we’re already in the second month of the year! Last December I’m sure we all made promises to ourself to cut off all the people and things we realized were “toxic” to our mind peace. But sis, did we really cut off everything?

As humans, it’s easy for us to look from the outside and form opinions on something but it’s very challenging and intimate to look on the inside and truly be frank with ourself.

WHAT IS YOUR TOXIC TRAIT

Don’t worry I’ll go first 😌

I’m definitely an over thinker. Small details get deciphered into a huge theory, now I have a thesis, a justification for my feelings, and a summary of how/why something or someone deserves to be cut off. Why do I do such things?!? I’m honestly not sure. I believe I’ve done this to feel less vulnerable and guard myself when I believe I’m being hurt. Though I will say it has been a form of a protective blanket; which doesn’t reduce how toxic it is by the way. The next is that I’m a procrastinator. This one is my biggest challenge- far more harmful than my overthinking. Plain and simple, I just need to stop. To deal with this, I’ve been doing things as soon as I think it. Mind over matter really takes the front wheel here. Just DO IT. Not later… NOW. Yes you’ll have time later but just do it NOW. I literally pick myself up from bed as soon as I wake up because I know if I’m given the opportunity I’ll waste the day and end up accomplishing barely 20% of my goals. So what’s YOUR toxic trait? Being honest with yourself is always step 1 to solving all your problems.

That’s all from me for now my loves. This year we will grow together and learn together. Just remember, there is no straightforward path in life, everyone is literally figuring themselves out daily. So give yourself a break ♥️